A letter to my future wife...

As I sit here and think about where my life is headed, I realize that as much as I try to avoid it, you will one day cross my path. I have tried to stay away from you, I have tried to not think about you and to just focus on me, but I realize that one day you will step into my life and change everything and so I accept that and I want you to know a few things.

I promise to take care of you. I promise that for the rest of our lives and beyond, you will be the most important person in my life. Not my parents, our children, my boss, or anyone will take more importance in my life than you. You will always be the most important person and thing that happens to me and I will make that obvious every day. I will take care of you financially, I am hard working and I am doing well for my self so far. I am ambitious and if I have to, I will work two jobs and support the family. You will never know a day with me where I am not busting tail to provide for you.

I will always protect you. I promise you that in these arms, you will always feel safe and secure. No one will be able to bring harm to you because I will always do anything to keep you from that. In my arms you will find strength to fight for you, but you will also find comfort and warmth for those times you just need to be held.

I promise to spoil you. You will always be my queen and I will always treat you as such. I have learned so much babe, so many experiences that have helped me be better for you and I know that it will always be important to me that you feel spoiled in every way possible.

I will always listen to you. Those nights where you just want to talk about your day at work, or how the kids behaved, I will listen to you always and you will forever have a chatting companion when you are with me. I promise that I will not be annoyed when you just want to cuddle and talk. I promise that I will not make fun of your silly stories about shopping and the problems between you and your girlfriends, I will always take everything you say important and you won’t ever have to fight for my attention.

I am not perfect. I have a past and there are things in my life I am not proud of. But the Lord has forgiven me and if you can find it in your heart to forgive me as well, I promise you that all those things I have lived will be so I can be a better husband and father. They will serve me as experience to know how to handle situations in our family. I promise you that I have become a better man because of it. I know we will fight, I know we will argue, but I promise you that I will never go to bed upset, I will work it out with you all night if I have to.

And finally, I promise to always love you with everything that I have. I promise to always show you that I care for you and love you. My words will not be alone; my actions will always dictate my love for you and what you mean to me. Everyone around us will know that I adore you and will be so jealous of our relationship, but none of that will matter, what matters is that you will be the happiest you have ever been everyday of our lives and for all eternity.

I promise you all these things and wait anxiously your arrival. Your future husband,

Disraeli